Hello readers!
Please welcome author Michael C. Hurley to the blog. He is going to talk to us about his book, Once Upon A Gypsy Moon, and even was kind enough to offer 2 lucky US readers a chance at a copy.
So first we will get to know more about the author.
A lifelong outdoor enthusiast, Michael Hurley has practiced law since 1984. He is the author of Letters from the Woods and several essays about "slices of life." He lives in Raleigh, North Carolina with his wife Susan and three dogs. Together they have four children.
Now, let's take a look at his newest book, Once Upon A Gypsy Moon.
Michael Hurley watched his world unravel in the wake of infidelity, divorce and failure. In August 2009, he was short of money, out of a job, and seeking to salvage a life that had foundered. Deeply in need of perspective, he took to the open seas in a 32-foot sailboat, Gypsy Moon. The story of his 2-year outward odyssey, deterred by rough weather and mechanical troubles, combines keen observation, poignant thoughts, and deeper introspection with glorious prose.
Once Upon a Gypsy Moon also presents a rare and much-needed point of view on the familiar spiritual-journey narrative. It offers a star-crossed love story wrapped inside a rollicking good sea tale, but it also has something important to say to the reader about relationships, faith and disbelief, life and death, love and marriage, and what really matters.
Purchase at Amazon US or visit the authors' website.
EXCERPT
A
Voyage Begins
I
stepped off a plane at Baltimore-Washington International Airport in
August 2009 and made my way to the traffic of cars picking up
passengers on the street below. It was an easy flight from Raleigh. I
carried no luggage save what fit in a small duffel held with one
hand. Walking into the bright morning sun, I felt the still, moist
heat that, for a period however brief every summer, makes Maryland
seem like Miami.
My
boat, a thirty-two-foot sloop named the Gypsy
Moon, lay just
outside Annapolis in a shipyard on the Magothy River, where I had
taken her for major repairs six months before. The strain of thirty
seasons of sailing since she first slipped her builder’s traces had
taken its toll, and the work necessary to fit her out for an ocean
voyage had taken five months to complete. I had undergone some less
visible but no less critical repairs myself in the past few years.
Now the Gypsy Moon
was ready, and so
was I.
My
sister and her husband met me at the airport to ferry me to the boat,
but not before the obligatory lunch of Maryland crab cakes and
farewells to my brother and his family, who live nearby. In the past
year and a half, while the boat was berthed in Annapolis, I had
relished weekends sailing around the bay in places where, growing up,
I had only imagined I might one day stand at the helm of my own boat.
Here, in my middle age, I had sailed the Gypsy
Moon under the
shadow of the statehouse that was America’s Revolutionary War
capitol and the place where my service as a legislative intern, at
age eighteen, had convinced me never to enter politics. Back in these
old haunts, I had fun reconnecting with family and friends and
imagining the life I might have had here if I had chosen differently
between job offers in two cities—one in Houston, one in
Baltimore—twenty-five years ago.
But
before long, my plans to prove Thomas Wolfe wrong about going home
again ran into reality. A sojourn of three decades in Texas and North
Carolina had made me more accustomed to the civility of southern
manners and less tolerant of the edgy combativeness of life up north.
It’s not just that the drivers won’t let you in on the road up
there. I recall passing abeam of another boat on the bay near
Baltimore and leaning over the rail with a smile, ready to exchange
what in southern waters would surely have been a friendly hello, and
being startled by a broadside of profanity in- stead. (I had dared to
come close.) Dumbfounded, I could manage no reaction but to say “I’m
terribly sorry” and tack. It seemed that a good share of the
population between Washington and Baltimore had grown accustomed to
living with their dukes up. I decided that there is more to the
warmth down south than the weather. I was eager to be off again,
aboard the Gypsy
Moon.
Over
lunch, I answered questions from my family that gently probed the
perimeters of my plans. Nassau seemed far away and nigh unattainable,
not just to them, but to me as well. It’s not every day, after all,
that one ships out to sea alone. It sounded more daring than it was,
yet I not only understood but shared their concerns. The open ocean
is no trifling thing, even on the best of days.
I
feel right at home at the helm of a sailboat, although I didn’t
come by that knowledge easily. Growing up in Maryland, I was the
youngest child by ten years of a divorced mother of four, spoiled
rotten by my two older sisters, too young to know my brother when he
was growing up, and all but abandoned at the age of two by an
alcoholic father whose absence was most acutely felt in a boy’s
unfulfilled dreams of grand adventure. The world of seafaring was the
stuff of Hollywood—unimaginable, and far from me. As a child I
lived my dreams on a much smaller scale, on creeks and ponds that I
could reach on foot, in nearby neighborhoods, and on scouting trips
with the aid of the fathers of other boys. It was mostly about the
fishing back then, and the smell of wood smoke, and the authenticity
of living life in the rough—however briefly, and never far from the
ready-to-eat suburban comforts of 1960s America. Those truant days in
the woods were wonderful furloughs, allowing my imagination to
inhabit a world apart from teachers and tests. I loved the
unsupervised freedom of it all.
But
Chesapeake Bay and the sea that lay beyond were distant and more
impenetrable mysteries, brought closer to me only occasion- ally when
my brother, Jay, would take me and my sisters out for day sails
aboard various dories and dinghies—some he rented, some he
purchased, and one he had built himself. I distinctly recall the
moment when the bow of a Rhodes 19 sloop, with my brother at the
helm, plunged out of the mouth of the South River into the chop of
the broader waters of Chesapeake Bay. What was once a horizon of
trees and houses became nothing but water and the unseen possibility
of whatever lay beyond. I looked into the small space of the cuddy
cabin beneath the mast, just big enough for a duffel of food and
clothes, and wondered what it might be like if we just kept
going.
We
didn’t. When our hour was up we pointed that fearless ship of
dreams sheepishly homeward, paid for the time used, and drove back to
the city on dry land. But the infection of that moment and others
like it remained with me and would reemerge often years later,
beginning with the time when I decided to “borrow” Jay’s
fourteen-foot sloop and take her sailing myself.
AND NOW A FEW QUESTIONS
Tell us the story behind the story. How did, Once Upon A Gypsy Moon, come to be?
The
book started as a series of letters that I published for a small
group of close friends and longtime readers. I had decided to make a
solo, long-distance voyage aboard a leaking and aged 32-foot
sailboat, the Gypsy
Moon, three
years after my twenty-five-year marriage had ended due to my
involvement in an extramarital affair. Events along the voyage became
touch points that I employed in writing about the crisis of guilt,
anger, self-pity, fear and longing that I was experiencing. The book
helped me to see where I had been, decide where I wanted to go, and
express the universal need of every man and woman facing a similar
failure or loss for understanding, forgiveness, and renewal.
From
Chapter 1:
“This
book is partly an effort to work out the navigational problems of the
heart—to find true north; to account for set, drift, variation and
deviation and measure the time and distance run, that I might better
know my position within what Tolkien called ‘some larger way,’
and that others might better find the lights to guide their own
voyages.”
What is the message you want readers to take from your book?
I didn’t write
the book especially for men, but I expect that my experience and what
I have to say about it may resonate particularly with men who, like
me, have made mistakes that have irrevocably changed their lives. We
men are hard on ourselves and are prone to guilt and self-loathing.
We hold on to the criticism about ourselves much longer than the
praise, and we often refuse to accept that every guy around is just
as imperfect as we are. On this voyage, I learned to face the fact
that while I can’t undo the harm I caused my family, there is
nothing to be gained by wallowing in it. Like a ship at sea, life
will move on from your mistakes with or without you. It is better to
be aboard and going somewhere—anywhere—than to be adrift in your
regrets and going nowhere.
From Chapter 4:
“The idea—now
so prevalent in law and politics—that there are ‘good’ people
and ‘bad’
people and that
‘good’ people always do the right thing is a fiction of the
childish mind. The wisdom of country songs notwithstanding, every one
of us, since the Fall of Man, has been ‘the cheating kind’ in
whatever area of life that holds for him or her the greatest
temptation. Humility requires that we understand this, but it is more
important to know that we are not defined by our mistakes. A ship’s
wake tells you where she has been, not where she is going.”
What are you working on now?
I
just finished my first novel—a romantic thriller set on the Outer
Banks of North Carolina. I am currently working on a proposal to
submit it for publication.
Thank you for stopping by and talking to us.
Now for the giveaway.
I have 2 copies up for grabs to 2 US winners!
Read the terms & conditions.
Good luck!
DISCLAIMER: I was not compensated.
The important thing is to learn from your mistakes. They sometimes mold the person you are today.
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This book sounds very interesting. I don't know much about boats, but I'd like to read the book. Thanks for having the giveaway.
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